(I will keep talking to myself)
So, they guys on the lights/flashlights forum have mentioned that it's good if both beams are projectors, not reflectors. The only car in the yard with both projectors was infinity j30, but the headlights were damaged.
My second choice was anything with two separate bulbs instead of a combined bulb (I am not sure why I want that. Are both beams on at the same time, or is it only the hi-beams in the hi-beams mode? My idea was to run both beams at the same time) and a real glass - looks like only these stay clear by the time they reach the yards.
The most common car with glass headlight - 1990–1993 Honda Accord, but the headlight assembly is too large if you grab the whole thing including adjustment hardware, and the mounting points are really odd. It would be a pain to mount it anywhere not stock.
My final choice was 850 Volvo. First of all, it's turbo charged, we can always use a couple extra HP. There is a build-in level and the mounting pattern is a blessing - just three bolts in the same plane. Real glass.